Master the Mystery of Meeting Men
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Finding that Man to Share the Rest of Your Life
is as SIMPLE as Knowing the To-Do's and Not-To-Do's
of Dating Like a Grownup.

(This is what I learned that led me to my amazing husband when I was 47!)

Does this sound like you?

• You're dating but feeling like maybe you are too old, too tall, too shy...or you are just too exhausted to keep trying.
• You are attracting the wrong type of man and have no idea how to attract the good guys.
  
• You have been suddenly thrown back into dating or been out of it for so long that you feel helpless, hopeless or confused.
• The idea of flirting, tapping into your innate sensuality or using your feminine energy is foreign to you or makes you feel uncomfortable.
• You're feeling like men don't want a woman like you because you aren’t a size 6, haven’t had a ton of plastic surgery and carry some extra "personal baggage.".
• You think it may be too late and that you'll have to spend the rest of your life as The Single Gal.
• You are NOT ready to give up the hope of meeting good man and are ready to take some action!

Hi. I'm Bobbi Palmer, The Dating and Relationship Coach for Women over 40. I became a first-time bride when I was 47 years old. I am SO glad that I didn't give up hope and finally decided to do something about my single status in my early 40s. I found a great guy, and now I help women FIND HOPE and then FIND HIM.

If you are an over-40 SMART SINGLE woman who is SICK and TIRED of the DISAPPOINTMENT and HOPELESSNESS of looking for Mr. Right...and not finding him, then my telecourse is for YOU.

When you join me for my telecourse
and start following my POWERFUL and PROVEN
6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him System, you will:

• Know the truth about dating at your age so you can stop wasting energy on your limiting beliefs and non-existent problems and zero-in on the (few) real challenges. (We make it SO much harder than it has to be!)
• Have the tools to feel safe, worthy and proud of who you are so you stay hopeful and positive as you attract the right men...and repel the wrong ones!
• Enjoy connecting with your feminine and soft side and start attracting confident, smart and relationship-minded men who are looking to meet a woman just like you. (And start repelling the non-committal, wimpy, loser-kind of guys.)
• Know the truth about how men think and feel so your communication – not just with men you date but ALL men in your life – becomes easier, fun and renders much better results!
• Have the skills to connect and chat with men anywhere and everywhere so you feel confident and start opening up new wonderful possibilities.
• Create an Action Plan to carry you forward and keep you on track so you can take control of your dating destiny and clear a path to Finding Him.

I am your committed partner in this journey.

In my Mastering the Mystery of Meeting Men after 40 Telecourse, I teach you my 6-Step Find Hope and then Find Him System. It's what I used to meet my spectacular husband. When you make the smart move to  join me, I guide you every step of the way. You also have the support and perspective of the other spectacular women who are stepping up and taking responsibility for their romantic destiny.

During our time together, I give you the compassionate support you need to let yourself feel hopeful while at the same time giving you the push you need to break through patterns and beliefs you've been stuck in for years. (That's one challenge of dating over 40: we have old "stuff" that may no longer be serving us. Getting to that is one of the keys to breaking through what's holding you back and keeping you from the love you so deserve.)

My breakthrough course includes simple, easy-to-follow strategies that will begin to work after the first week as you begin to learn more about yourself and men,  break free of limiting beliefs and implement what I teach you.

You will learn to MASTER the MYSTERY of MEETING (THE RIGHT) MEN so you can start attracting partnership, romance, fun and passion into your life!

Here's My Story: From Satisfied Single to Blissful Bride at 47.

I had a client once say that talking to me is "like talking to a girlfriend who has her act together when it comes to men." I think that does a pretty good job of describing me and how I help women. I understand though, that this is a very intimate part of your life and if you're going to consider me as a partner in your journey you would want to know some of my story.

I was single until I was 47, and then I married the man of my dreams.

I was just about at the point accepting that I would be alone the rest of my life. Looking back, it's a dang good thing I didn't give up!

At 47 I became a first-time bride. By that time I had dated for about 30 years. 30 years of no dates or bad dates. 30 years of going to sleep alone at night, wondering if I'd ever meet a nice guy who would love me, just as I am, and share my life.

I've now been married five years.

At the risk of sounding like one of those women I used to envy, my marriage is the best thing in my life. I feel like it’s the luscious topping on what was my already-tasty cake. (Being man-less aside, I had a pretty good life as a single gal! Probably just like you.)

Every day I am told that I’m loved. I feel safe and special, and I know I have permission to be me: complexities and imperfections and all. And I feel proud not  just because I have this fabulous man who loves me, but because I have become the woman who deserves this fabulous man.

I don't tell you this to brag. I share it with you so you know that I know more than a few things about being a single gal who thought finding love was for other women. I know how it feels...somewhere about the time you turn 40...thinking that your chances of getting married are just about nil. And every day that passes feels like your chances are dwindling even more.

And I know how it feels to figure it out, to meet the man and create the life that was always (secretly) in my dreams.

I finally broke through the frustration and disappointment.

There was a moment I finally got so frustrated and  decided I was sick of playing the blame game. I realized it wasn’t those horrible men, where I lived or the fact that I wasn’t 25 anymore. Those things had absolutely NOTHING TO DO WITH WHY I WAS STILL SINGLE! The common denominator was me. I knew the only thing I had power over changing was myself. And that’s when I finally committed to doing what I needed to do to find love.

I had to admit that I had no idea how to find a good man. (I knew how to find non-committal and disappearing men, though!) What I was doing wasn't working, but I had no idea how to do it differently.

Among other things, eventually I learned these couple huge ironies to all this finding love stuff, especially for those of us women dating over 40:

• The good men — the right men — want us just the way we are…it’s just that we don’t know how to be ourselves around them. (You can also read this as: You ARE good enough!)
• This seems so hard, but it’s really pretty EASY when we stop trying so much.

For the past several years I've been teaching other women like you how to not just find love but to know and love themselves and, yes...know and love men.  That's a woman who can go out and enjoy dating and attract the man who is perfect for her.

Now I'm going to teach you what I and so many other women have done to bring the ultimate joy into their lives.  You see...I've got it down to somewhat of a science. It's been proven to work time and time again for women just like you.

Here's an important question: You invest heavily in time and money when buying a house or looking for a good job. Why would you put less thought and investment into your search for a loving life partner? If you seriously want to find love, don't let anything else keep you from getting what you've been wanting for (probably) a long time. Waiting and doing nothing won't change anything.

Mastering the Mystery of Meeting Men after 40 has been a life-changing experience for many women just like you.

I am so dedicated to helping women find the last true love of their life that I have created a telecourse just for you. This isn't just a telecourse; it's a new life experience. It's a community. It's a commitment to yourself. That's how you create new opportunity and new successes. This course combines all the elements you need to create real and lasting results. And it's taught by someone just like you...who has actually found what you're looking for.

I created this life-changing course for you: the 40-, 50-, 60-plus-year-old woman who wants to find her partner but sometimes feels more like an 18 year old when it comes to dating! I know that feeling...I know how it holds us back...and I know how to get you past it! It is my passion — my mission — to be your partner and guide you through to the beginning of a wonderful life with a loving man.

It worked for me, it’s worked for my countless clients…and it will work for you too – even if you haven’t dated for a while or your last 10 dates have gone nowhere. Even if you feel like giving up.

Session #1 was October 17....
But you can still register and we'll send you the recording and workbook....ends January 9.

Here’s just some of what you will
 learn in just 8 weeks that will
 change your life!

(I will be with you to support you through the holiday season...if you need me!)

• Jump-Start Session: (Monday, October 17, 6:00 Pacific)
  

• I guide you as you identify and share your expectations, mindset and goals, and learn new tools to keep you motivated and focused -- not just throughout our months together, but for the rest of your life!.
• We will get to know each other and form (voluntary) support teams before we kick off training in Session #1.

• Session 1: Who Am I? Falling in Love with Yourself   (Monday, October 24, 6:00 Pacific)
  

• Reacquaint yourself with the real you: the woman who has so many reasons to feel beautiful, interesting and proud of the life you’ve created.
• Learn how to begin looking at your life through a new, fresh lens in order to become positive, open, trusting and irresistible to the men you meet and date.
• Recognize what has been keeping you feeling stuck so you can experience new levels of freedom, hope, self-trust and desirability.

• Session 2: Who Is He? Getting Past “Your List”  (Monday November 7, 6:00pm Pacific)
  

• Take your “list” to the next level to identify what will really make you happy – both in a man and in a relationship. (And no, you don’t have to settle!)
• Begin to craft a 21st Century “list” to ensure that your negotiables and “must-haves” really align with your values, beliefs and essence.
• Escape patterns that keep you picking men who can’t (and don’t want to) make you happy.

• Session 3: I’m Fabulous…So What’s the Damn Problem?  (Wednesday, November 16, 6:00pm Pacific)
  

• Learn to identify your habits and beliefs that create roadblocks and keep you from enjoying the dating process and finding your heart's desire.
• How to become a person who dates from a place of softness, femininity and compassion so that you enjoy the benefits of good dating karma – a phenomenon which nearly guarantees your long-term dating and relationship success.

• Session 4: Casting the Net: Where Is He and How Do I Find Him?  (Monday, November 21, 6:00pm Pacific)
  

• How to spot, engage and attract the men you want and make a connection that results in a date!
• Learn how to read a man’s verbal and nonverbal signals to determine if he's interested.
• Get an inside look at the male mind to begin understanding how to actually become the woman all men want to adore, cherish and love for the long term.

• Session 5: Now What Do I Do with Him: Getting from Rendezvous to Romance  (Monday, November 28,
  6:00pm Pacific)
  

• How to flirt effectively and with class by tapping into your hidden feminine vavoom,
• Boosting your confidence to be the “picker – not the pickee” to lose the “he’s better than being single” mentality forever.
• How to turn the “Meet Date” into a “First Date” by learning the hidden truths about how to project the signals men are looking for.
• Tips and Scripts that cover what to say and what not to say so that you get the info you need without causing him grab his Nikes and run for the hills!

• Session 6: Should I Stay or Should I Go?  (Monday, December 12, 6:00pm Pacific)
  

• How to decide if he's a “keeper” so you stop the feelings of self-doubt and confusion.
• How to determine if it’s chemistry or true love by using a proven, effective method for making good, solid dating and relationship decisions.
• How to move beyond “good enough” to easily make room for the next possible Mr. Right to show up sooner rather than later.

• Sessions 7 and 8 open coaching sessions (Monday December 19  and Monday January 9, 6:00pm Pacific)

•  I am on the the phone for 90 minutes; available for you to ask any question. I'm here to support you, teach you and keep you focused. Whether you need a cheerleader, need guidance with something specific or just want to connect with the other women sharing your journey, these sessions are essential as you apply the information and tools you've learned so you don't return to old habits.

 

IN ADDITION to these training sessions, each week I will have an
Open Coaching Call.
(That's SIX more coaching sessions!)

Once each week you can hop on and ask me anything! Let me support you in your assignments, keep you accountable and help you get unstuck when you're sitting around the house feeling guilty or frustrated. This ongoing support is VERY UNIQUE to courses such as this one, but I find it ESSENTIAL TO YOUR SUCCESS!

To make these available to as many participants as possible, the dates and times for these calls will be determined by YOU when we convene for our Jump Start session.

The elements in the Master the Mystery of Meeting Men Telecourse include:

• Instruction and coaching via telephone
• Weekly independent exercises and real-life application (to keep you focused and make sure this sticks!)
• Instant access to replays of each call so you can begin to build an audio library to refresh and review the material whenever you need additional support. (And if you can’t make a session, no problem! You will never miss anything.)
• An in-depth personal workbook that includes weekly assignments, forms, affirmations, tips and techniques.
• A private online group to share successes, discuss issues and get support from other fabulous women just like you.
• A personalized certificate of completion recognizing your willingness to invest in yourself, your courage and your accomplishment.

And...to further support you, I'm giving you:

• My eBook: 7 Secrets to Finally Finding Love after 40: Confessions of the World's Worst Dater. My personal story of journeying from Single to Married when I was 47 includes a multitude of tips and advice as well as exercises.

• A 2-part audio program providing essential ongoing self-support from the guided imagery expert Dike Drummond. Use these whenever you need to to help you Relax, Stay Focused on your goal and truly Feel Your Worth. (Delivered as mp3 downloads.)

• $50 Gift Certificate toward my 1-1 personal coaching programs.

 AND here is something special....a chance to talk directly to Single Men:

A LIVE MAN-PANEL!!

Toward the end of the course I will host a bonus call that you don't want to miss!

I am going to host a call with SINGLE MEN of all ages, locations and kinds
and you will be able to ASK THEM ANYTHING...ANONYMOUSLY!
They will tell you their HONEST ANSWERS to any of your questions
about how they think and feel about dating and relationships.

ONLY the NEXT 8 who register for the telecourse
will reserve their place in my Man-Panel call...so Register Now!

(I am keeping this small so everyone has a chance to ask questions, and several seats are already taken!)

Are you wondering if this is right for you? Here is what some of the women I have helped have to say:

And one more thing:

• When you start following my magic formula, some additional perks you will enjoy include:
  • A sense of peace and calm from knowing that you trust yourself to make decisions that are good for you and lead you in the right direction toward your romantic goals.
  • The ability to relax when you understand and believe that you don’t have to give up your independence or who you are to find your perfect match.
  • Feeling confident, deserving and empowered so that you begin to enjoy the dating process and the resulting perks of being courted.
  • Feeling empowered and confident, especially when your girlfriends start asking you “how you’re doing it” the next time you meet for coffee. (That’s what happened to me!)

  Being the woman who will attract the kind of man you want has a lot to do with how you are communicating. Also, just because someone has done this for themselves doesn't automatically mean they can teach others. Well...I actually know a lot about communication and teaching. I have over 30 years experience helping adults learn. I've taught everything from selling cars to conflict management to helping Naval officers understand how satellites communicate with Earth. (Yes, really!) It has always been my passion to help people improve their lives. Now I teach women how to find love. Now THIS is helping people! (And by the way – if you haven't yet figured this out – this isn't just about finding love; it's a lot about loving yourself!)

   

  
  

YOU TOO can have the love of a devoted man!

But there's a catch: you have to be willing to do something other than what you’ve been doing – because obviously, it’s not working out so well. That’s why I decided to take what I learned and teach you the 6-step process I went through to find partnership, love, and passion – all at the age of 47.

YES, IT'S MY TIME

No More Excuses - Don't Spend Your Holidays Alone

I really encourage you to ENROLL NOW for one reason and one reason only:
Because if you don’t do this now and you keep doing things the same old way,
you will be in the same place next year; wondering why you're still single.

I have to say this, girlfriend:  Time is passing you by.
NOW is the time to finally stop hiding behind your walls and your safety nets.
It's time you stop losing out. There is a man waiting to bring fun and intimacy into your life...
if only you knew how to find him.

And you have nothing to lose here.
If you don't start seeing the results for yourself and have participated in all pieces of the class
(attendance at each of the six training sessions and turning in required homework),
you can get your money back, no questions asked.

In just eight weeks – in time for the holidays – you will know the exact system
I and countless clients have used successfully to meet good men and find a loving life partner.

P.S.: The only reason not to take advantage of this amazing offer is if you want to stay single. You can keep complaining that your dating and love life suck and that you're lonely, or you can join me and other spectacular women who are committed to take control of their romantic lives. That special man is out there waiting for you to figure out how to meet him, just like Larry was waiting for me. I sincerely believe this, and I hope you take action today!

P.P.S. Why would you put less thought and investment into your search for a loving life partner than you would when buying a house or looking for a good job? If you seriously want to find love, don't let anything else keep you from getting what you've been wanting for (probably) a long time.